Is it just me or Christmas this year is not as bubbly as it usually is? The whole fuel scarcity thing is probably what everyone is talking about; asides how rubbish our economy is. It is well.This post is a little bit over due, I was just too excited about my Odu’a trip and I had to post that first lol. So, I was watching skinny girl in transit the other day, the final episode and it dawned on me that Tiwa wasn’t meant to end up as the conventional big girl idea some of us have. Although she still had the conventional state of mind.
Let me break my thoughts down a little, She started out feeling insecure about her weight but later her confidence grew. She ended up with an amazing and good looking guy, not to mention loaded; that didn’t care about her extra flesh here and there… but she still felt fat. Fat is a rude word, I know but I don’t mean it the literal way. I mean, you can be plus size and not feel fat. Fat is when you don’t feel beautiful because you’re bigger than the average girl. Even in movies, only the big girls with insecurities call themselves fat whilst crying and running somewhere to cry alone. The confident ones use the term phat instead. I mean, fat or skinny, aren’t we all imperfect? I remember praying to God back in secondary school to get rid of my thigh gap cause I hated it so much, I still do.
All I’m trying to say in a nut shell is we’re all beautiful. Saying this doesn’t automatically make it okay; your insecurities aren’t just going to go away but it won’t hurt you remind yourself one more time that you’re beautifully made. I’m not going to be a hypocrite and say that I don’t raise my phone a little higher to take selfies so y’all don’t think I’m going to sniff you like coke with my big ass nostrils. The difference now is, I’m not shy or insecure about it. I’m only working my angles lol. Although, I still have other insecurities that I work on
everyday not really everyday 🙄.
So let’s all keep working on our insecurities and realising how beautiful we can be inside and out instead of letting society tell you what beauty is when God already created us all in diverse but beautiful ways!
Wishing y’all a very Merry Christmas 🎄
Thanks for reading guys 💗