So yesterday, I saw this story that someone shared (of course he said it was his friends story) about a lady he wanted to have sex with it but couldn’t go through with it because she had stretch marks on her butt.
I saw another post where another guy said he felt sorry for slim girls because no one would ever want them. People tried to convince him with their comments that it wasn’t a general preference; some men did prefer their women slim but this guy wouldn’t have it. He said “stop deceiving yourselves.” “So because I’m saying how every guy feels I’m not ok.”
Permit me to rant about men children. Man child: an immature man. What’s wrong with our generation? The guys are so insensitive sometimes… Making a big deal about women who wear makeup and weaves. Saying hurtful things to women that have stretch marks or some fat around their bellies. They’ve led several girls to feel insecure and ashamed of what they look like. If they find their perfect woman today, when she gets pregnant chances are her body would change. That term they use for women whose breasts are no longer perky (Olympus has fallen-can you even imagine 😡) m would be the situation of their wives. She might have those “ugly” stretch marks too (like having stretch marks is a taboo).
What then would happen to the love you claimed to have for her? You would cheat on her and say “she let herself go?”
They make a big deal about women wearing makeup but only a handful will approach a girl that’s team natural. They like all the “packaging” and whether they believe it or not, their wives breasts won’t be perky forever, she has abs now doesn’t mean she’ll have it forever, most women have stretch marks so they better start to accept it.
The women they lust after on covers on magazines have been air brushed but they want real life beauties like us to look like an edited picture. Men have lead insecure girls to believe they are not beautiful enough, bleach their skin in order to look prettier, wear butt pads and so on.
We girls need to remind ourselves that were beautiful regardless what they say. No one is going to love us if we don’t love ourselves first. You can be skinny, fat, slim, dark, fair, short, tall, pear shaped, Apple shaded, square shaped or hourglass. You can even have cellulite and/or stretch marks, short/long hair, kinky/straight/curly hair but one thing we have in common is beauty. We are all beautiful and if a man child says otherwise
punch him in the face ignore him.
Thank you guys for reading and remember you’re beautiful!…X